I’m not afraid to stand for what I believe in, and I wholeheartedly believe that the BSA’s recent announcement that they’ll not be changing their policy of excluding gay scouts and scout leaders makes me sick to my stomach.
Let me start this off by giving some background information: I’m an Eagle Scout of BSA Troop 1541 out of Silverdale, WA. I earned that rank on September 13th, 1995 and at the time was a part of an Explorer troop as well, and a part of the Order of the Arrow. I was proud of what I had accomplished, I was proud that I had completed all the requirements to get something I knew be able to stand tall about for the rest of my life.Yes, that dorky individual to the left of your screen is me, proudly standing next to my Grandmother Elsie who was able to attend my Eagle ceremony. You see, it’s not just something that scouts themselves are proud of, but rather something that your entire family becomes a part of. Scouting builds bonds with your family and friends in ways I never even thought I’d imagine when I started the process some 10 years earlier. It gives us skills and abilities to understand who we truly are, what we’re capable of, and through that understanding mold ourselves into confident individuals who can communicate with our family, friends, and colleagues in ways we might not otherwise be able to.
I wish I could go to the current generation of youth in the USA and recommend that they join the BSA, but I can’t. Moreover, it’s my duty to the scouting code that prohibits me from doing so. I must stay true and honest to those principles that I hold so dear, if I am to allow myself to still stand tall as a member of the Eagle Scouts. The scout law is as follows for those who don’t know it:
A Scout is Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean, and Reverent
Allow me to touch on a couple of these that have special meaning to me:
A Scout is Trustworthy
We are a sum of our experiences and our actions, and if I am to stay truthful in my actions, I must therefore stand tall in saying I have no issue with anyone’s choice in sexual orientation. I’ve known people across the entire spectrum and called many of them friend. Just as race is a taboo standard by which to judge an individual now, so too is sexual orientation, it just hasn’t had the generational gap to make it an ingrained practice.
A Scout is Loyal, A Scout is Helpful
We each hold within us a set of principles, of guidelines that help us define right from wrong. I am loyal to those principles, because those principles were indoctrinated into me in my youth, by both scouting and my surroundings. But they teach me to be accepting of others choices, they teach me to do my “good deed daily” and help others. And that help must come without discrimination.
“Do a good deed daily.” Every scout has heard this, and almost every scout I know tries to live by it to the best of their ability. Whether it is by holding the door open for someone, or pulling off the side of the road to help push someones car out of a busy intersection on your way to your Boy Scout meeting (This happened to me twice, go figure). We don’t need credit for our actions, we don’t seek medals or accolades, we just want to help our fellow human regardless of who they are.
A Scout is Friendly, A Scout is Courteous, A Scout is Kind
How is discrimination ever friendly, ever courteous, ever kind? How are we to be proud of being a part of an organization that violates its own law? As I was preparing this post, I hit this part and it just made me sit back and think about how truly unjust, cruel, and mean this recent announcement is. It has affected me so much that I’ve considered not even putting on my résumé that I am an Eagle Scout, for lack of wanting to be associated with an organization that would make such a stance in this day and age. We need to be better than this, and we need to say so proudly.
A Scout is Brave
I chose this one as the title for this post with a very good reason. It is our duty as Eagles, as Scouts, to stand up and be brave now. We are a very powerful voice, and we must not allow ourselves to be silenced by anything. If that bravery comes in the form of a signature to Jennifer Tyrrell’s change.org petition, in your own online posting, in the sharing of this one if you agree with my statements, or in the direct contact of you to your local BSA council showing your stance on it, we need this change. I want to be proud that I’m an Eagle Scout, I want to encourage the next generation to follow in our footsteps because I know how it will help their lives, but as it stands now, I simply can’t.






